Matt and Alan use “instead of” instead of “don’t”
We talk about the ways to casually and effectively use “instead of” as a replacement for “don’t” in order to give folks a positive direction. Related post: Two words… … Read More
Leaders let people grieve in their own way
December 19, 2012 by Alan Feirer
Effective leaders change the pace
December 6, 2012 by Alan Feirer
Group Dynamic Primer Chapter Seven: Positivity
October 24, 2012 by Alan Feirer
We’ve covered six leadership traits and skills. Now, it’s time to talk about two mindsets that must permeate our leadership behaviors. The first is positivity. Being positive is the way others… Read More
Leadership Problem: Grace vs. Enabling
April 6, 2010 by Alan Feirer
Cut people some slack. Really, you never know what kind of a day they’re having, how bad their insomnia is, whether they’ve suffered a major loss, or whatever other darkness they carry.
Because grace is something everyone needs to learn, and leaders sometimes act out of fear – “I’ll look weak!” we think. Pick some moments to cut people some slack.
At least, you’ll inspire loyalty because you’ve shown compassion, and at best, you’ll teach grace. And that can change the world. … Read More